tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9074751846956244491.post1677089662837687945..comments2023-06-28T05:57:33.679-04:00Comments on Something Better: We tried it on for size...Freyahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17984144885578631554noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9074751846956244491.post-72310971748176542122011-12-01T10:13:30.696-05:002011-12-01T10:13:30.696-05:00Count me in the list of men who would do almost an...Count me in the list of men who would do almost anything for a chance at something like this!<br /><br />Your words, in a general sense were hauntingly too familiar, just not about sex. I think my wife would call me compliant and willing to go along with things that she wished I would initiate.<br /><br />I guess to make anything work, it's about doing what you are good at, and for other things doing your best and having both sides appreciate the effort as best as possible.<br /><br />How valuable would it be to spend just 5 minutes in the other person's brain to really appreciate what was important to that person, to truly know!<br /><br />But, at least you too talked and opened up, maybe it planted a seed which will grow into something.<br /><br />-MAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9074751846956244491.post-23399079810931168492011-11-21T14:05:53.554-05:002011-11-21T14:05:53.554-05:00you and i, so the cliche goes, have a lot in commo...you and i, so the cliche goes, have a lot in common.<br /><br />Some of our deepest, and most painful, conversations happen after one of us can't sleep, so, in the middle of the night, with foggy brains, we try and talk it out. <br /><br />i too, want a more dynamic sexual relationship at home. I don't even have a specific relationship in mind, I just want more enthusiasm, more interest, more fun, more fucking. <br /><br />She's tried to be sexier, with baby-talk or dirty talk or toys, or dress-up, but in the end, I can see it on her face, she thinks it's all just stupid, and that ruins it for me. If she's not enjoying it, then it feels horrible.<br /><br />What next? tell him what you want, find something just on the edge of his comfort zone, and give it a try.<br />XOXOAdvizor54https://www.blogger.com/profile/02818587592229617693noreply@blogger.com