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Monday, February 14, 2011

Sexual Bucket List

In my world love and sex are intertwined. It's only fitting that on a day that is meant to celebrate love, we talk about sex, too. I found this fun Sexual Bucket List on a few blogs and decided to play along.

Happy Valentine's Day to all those who love, and I hope we all get to cross at least one thing off our list tonight!


  1. Kiss a girl   yes. 3 when I was much younger. (to practice on)
  2. Have anal   yes. love it.
  3. Have a threesome   sadly, no. maybe if we branch out one day.
  4. Engage in group sex   no.
  5. Have phone sex   dirty talk, but not full on w/touching.
  6. Masturbate   yes.
  7. Use a vibrator   ooh, yes. and I have a wide variety.
  8. Use a sex toy on someone else   mm hmm. he loves them too. again - a wide variety!
  9. Be tied up   yes, just 2 days ago. ;)
  10. Tie someone up   yes. I'm a big fan of cuffs and restraints
  11. Have sex in a public space   outside in neighbor's yard count?
  12. Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live, porn does not count) no. would love to.
  13. Sex in a car   yes.
  14. Sex at a drive-in   no.
  15. Mile-high club   no.
  16. Sex with a stranger   no.
  17. One-night stand   yes.
  18. Married sex (the best kind, in my opinion)   lots and lots and lots.........
  19. Sex on a boat   no.
  20. Sex in a body of water   yes.
  21. Light spanking   yes. giving and receiving!
  22. Read erotica   yes. it's what I mostly read. I love good smut!
  23. Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game   no.
  24. Sex in the shower   yes.
  25. Sex standing up against a wall   no.
  26. Sex with no kissing   one time. never again.
  27. Sex in the pitch black   probably.
  28. Sex in the broad daylight   yes
  29. Making out with no sex long after you're no longer a virgin   yes!!! tease and denial, anyone?
  30. Sex in a tent in the wilderness   no.
  31. Watch porn together   yes.
  32. Watch porn alone   yes.
  33. Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms   yes, w/small refractory period. (a few minutes) it's rare.
  34. Sex on the beach   no.
  35. Blindfolds   yep.
  36. Using ice sexually   oh yeah! that's a good story.......(for the record, I don't like cold sex)
  37. Sexual role play   not really.
  38. Whipped cream   i'm sure my nips have been adorned at some point.
  39. La Perla lingerie sex   no.
  40. Frederick's of Hollywood lingerie sex   no.
  41. Sex with someone much older   no. only 6 years.
  42. Sex with someone younger (legal!)   no. always went for older guys.
  43. Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner   could've. should've. but I was engaged.
  44. A quickie in a skirt   yes. sans panties, naturally!
  45. A longie in the rain   no. rain is cold. see answer qualification # 36.
  46. Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you   no and no.
  47. Feather ticklers   yes. actual pheasant feather.
  48. Sex while "altered" whether by alcohol or something else a handful of times. I'm not a fan.
  49. Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone    yes. with time to spare!
  50. Silent sex in a full house   silent? as best as I could manage. ;)
How many have you done? And what's on your bucket list?

7 comments:

TemptingSweets99 said...

Love this!

The Savage said...

o0o00o0 sexah!

GoodWill said...

Very nice! I'm excited to see where the new blog takes you!

(and I may need to steal this bucket list idea for myself!)

Marcus said...

Enjoyable list! I liked seeing what might be on the road map of things to come and where you've been. #3 sounds promising! #9 and #10 show versatility. Tried #9 a couple of times, but not #10 yet but want to. I need to go through this list in detail and answer all of the questions.

H said...

I like this #2 I am so envious, #25 your missing out, I love holding you up against a wall, your hanging on my arm, very erotic #44 I abolutely love this.

Freya said...

@TS99-Thanks. In more ways than one, thank you! ;)

@Savage- glad you think so. Right backatcha.

@Goodwill- I'll hold you to that. Can't wait to read your answers.

@Marcus- #3 is a big "if". It's not somewhere I feel the need to go, but nothing's off the table! 9 and 10? I'm nothing if not versatile. More fun that way. As far as 10 goes......I've got the equipment. ;)

@H- I'm versatile with #2 as well. I give as good as I get! ;) And just like I told Marcus, I've got the proper equipment. You sound like a pro with wall sex. I think it's a proportion issue. Taller guys seem like they'd work better in that position. I've never been with tall guys. You're tall, right?

Thanks for stopping by everybody!

Advizor54 said...

I can still help with #5

:-)