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Tuesday, November 1, 2011

TMI Tuesday...Always with the sex

Let’s Talk about Sex



1. What sexual act arouses you the most? For that matter, what nonsexual act arouses you the most?
Displays of desire, intensely passionate kisses and touches...being seduced. I need more of that. I don't get seduced often enough. Nonsexually, the right music will turn me on, and also watching a man groom himself. The slow careful strokes of the razor that leaves clean lickable skin....applying soothing balm or aftershave with an intoxicating fragrance. The fragrance is so important. I love a good smelling man. I've been stopped in my tracks by a stranger's scent just so I can linger closely and inhale him.

2. What is your signature or “go to” move that is sure to get a lover in the mood for sex?
Kissing. That certain kiss that lingers, that beckons him back to my mouth for one more...then that one more deepens until tongues are tangling, hair is being grabbed, and laps are resituated.  And that's all it takes. Or I innocently grind my tush into his crotch and make sleepy moans. But that's for when I'm playing coy. *grins*

3. Do you queef?
No, I really don't. And after reading everyone else's TMI posts, I'm surprised that so many do. I'm guessing there's a lot of variables that leave me the statistical oddball once again. Maybe it's my particular anatomy, maybe the style of sex that we have? It just doesn't happen. You all seem to think it's a sign of a good fucking. I don't know......I'm just saying that kegels are a girl's best friend.   ;)

4. What’s the weirdest thing that’s happened to YOU as a result of your sex writings (e.g., blog, erotica, sex toy reviews)? (borrowed from Insatiabear)
I only have a handful of "weird" things that have happened. One is disturbing, the other is delightful, and the other few fall into the "it comes with the territory of sex blogging" category. Disturbing : due to a series of unfortunate events a family member found my blog. It makes for awkward family gatherings, but I'm almost completely over the mortification. Delightful : I was propositioned with a curious request from a reader, and I took him up on it.

5. Have you ever had sex while someone watched? nope
…someone else was in the room? negative
…someone else in the bed, next to you and the person you’re having sex with? nuh uh
What were the circumstances? I can only think of one acceptable situation where someone would be watching me have sex and that someone would be my husband. That obviously means the other person wouldn't be. ;)

6. When it comes to sex, and discussing it with your teen have you or would you:
a. Let school sex education handle it
b. Hand the teen a book or point them to a website
c. Talk frankly and openly
d. Avoid it all together–society, friends, and the internet will give all the info needed
My kids got the 5th grade "this is your body.....and this is your body during and after puberty" talk from the schools. I remember signing a permission slip for my son to take a 9th grade health course that was sexual in nature, and my daughter will be taking the same this year. I also know that I've provided them with honest discussions about sexuality and responsibility on my own so that I'm 100% sure that they hear things from a reliable source and hear values that are important to our family. And I never fail to use an opening when I have one to drop common sense reminders. Still, I'm not certain how much sinks in.........

Click Here, it’s important
Bonus:   Remember the song, “I’m too sexy?” CLICK to refresh your memory
What are you too sexy for?
My husband. I fear some days he just can't keep up.
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Happy TMI Tuesday!

7 comments:

Advizor54 said...

I love your answer to #5 and the Bonus question... Poor hubby, maybe he needs an assistant on the nights he's too tired.....

Freya said...

We have a lot of "assistants" already. Wait. Do you mean assistant of the living, breathing variety? Ooooh....... I like that idea.

Advizor54 said...

:-) I'm here to help.

GoodWill said...

Freya...love your answers, not surprisingly.
#1 - and you deserve to be seduced. Sometimes us husbands forget that. I love the idea of shaving turning you on...next time I shave I'll be daydreaming about someone watching me, getting herself all turned on. LOL.
#2 - Yep, that'd do it for me. And tush is such an underused word. Too cute. Haha.
#4 - a family member!!?? Yi-ikes.

And your bonus answer sounded like mine. Honest.

H said...

#1 Scent is very important
#2, that would work for me
#3 never complian about not queefing
#4 Love it

Lisa (Tantra Flower) said...

"Displays of desire". Yes! Every woman wants this more than anything.

I took a Blogger break for a few days. I wish I had known TMI Tuesday is about sex again! I think I'll go ahead and do it anyway. TMI Thursday. Hehe

Mrs Discontented said...

I'm SO late, sorry...

#1 Smell! How could I forget that, there is one particular mens scent that if I smell I'm instantly in the mood. I make my hubby wear it, perhaps I wouldn't be so frustrated if I didn't.

#3 Um...I love my kegal balls, in fact they're usually in um...place at least a few days a week, quite often under instruction, not that I mind at all!

#5 Lol, great answer!